As a fully initiated member of this club, I can relate to all that Daniel writes about here.
Every year, there’s a friend who has had or adopted a child in the past year and is celebrating his first Father’s Day as a father. This year Jonathan and GI joined this club.
“Welcome,” I write to them. It’s like joining a club. The day changes forever once you’re a dad. Your relationship with other people, with your own dad, with you father-in-law… they all change as you watch yourself as a father.
I am unbelievably happy for them. As much as I feel for Kim after nearly twenty-one years of marriage, the love I feel as a dad is chest-expandingly huge.
Not everyone feels that way as a parent.
Maybe there’s a secret club that only some parents join. The members are the ones who take time every day to appreciate their children and really see and hear them.
I look at Maggie and instantly see her at…
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