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Category Archives: Jake Colman
The 30th
Tomorrow, August 19, would have been Jake’s 30th birthday. Seems hard to believe. But so many things have happened in the past 6 years that are hard to believe. Nothing is unbelievable anymore. It is a futile and frustrating exercise … Continue reading
Posted in Jake Colman
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About Those 7 Things
Here is a blog post I just read. It is from 2015 and if you are grieving the loss of a child, I am sure you have read or written something like this. I probably read it three years ago … Continue reading
Posted in Daily Ramblings, Friends and Family, Healing, Jake Colman, Jake's Spirit, Memory, Progress
Tagged deathofachld, friendsandfamily, grieving parents, hawaiianmusic, Jake, lessons, longing, Loss, love, music
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Where Does the Time Go?
I haven’t written anything on these pages since February of this year. 10 months. Where does the time go? Much has happened this year, and yet … There have been many times where I lay awake in the deep of … Continue reading
Posted in Grief, Jake Colman, Memory, Observations, Progress, Sadness
Tagged grieving parents, grievingdads, livingwithgrief, lost children, newyear, newyearseve
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How Can I Sing With a Broken Heart.
We went to a concert last night. Hawaiian music. Keola Beamer, a master of Hawaiian slack key guitar, and Henry Kapono. They were two of the progenitors and drivers of the Hawaiian Rennaissance during the 60’s and 70’s. It was … Continue reading
Posted in Coping, Grief, Jake Colman, Sadness, Tragedy
Tagged deathofmyson, family, familyvacation, grieving dad, grieving parents, hawaii, hawaiianmusic, kauai, marktwain, memoryofalovedone, music
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December 28, 2017
Thursday was December 28, the 4th December 28th since Jake’s passing. 4 years. It doesn’t seem possible, but in this new world I now inhabit, anything is possible. It is one of the curiosities of time that it can be … Continue reading
Posted in Ceremony, Coping, Grief, Healing, Honoring Jake, Jake Colman, Jake's Spirit, Memory, Progress, Sadness
Tagged dealingwithdeath, deathofachild, deathofmyson, friendship, graveside, grieving parents, healing, heartache, lossofafriend, memories
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In the Beginning …
“You say you lost your faith, but that’s not where it’s at. You had no faith to lose and you know it.” Bob Dylan – Positively 4th Street We have just come through the three weeks of what is called … Continue reading
Posted in Ceremony, Coping, Grief, Jake Colman
Tagged deathofachild, deathofmyson, grieveingparent, grievingdad, highholydays, isthereagod, lifeafterloss, lost children, lostfaith
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A Perpetual State of Bewilderment
It seems unbelievable that exactly three years ago, I wrote a post for this blog titled “A New Stage”. It was a stage of grief that isn’t really discussed in the “grief literature”, one that I named the WTF stage. … Continue reading
Posted in Coping, Grief, Jake Colman, Progress
Tagged addiction, confusion, deathofason, deathofmyson, grieveingparent, grieving parents, suddendeathofachild
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