Category Archives: Jake Colman

The 10 Minute Ride

Posted on September 5, 2014 by edcol52

Originally posted on A Working Grief:
Imagine yourself standing on the platform of the world’s largest roller coaster. Stop and really imagine the sensation. It’s a beautiful sunny day as you stare out to the mountains in the distance. To…

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Jake’s Birthday

Posted on August 20, 2014 by edcol52

Yesterday was Jake’s 25th birthday. Somehow we made it through without imploding, vaporizing, or disintegrating. We went for juicy pastrami sandwiches dripping with coleslaw on fresh crusty rye for lunch at Langer’s, an old-school deli in downtown LA. Jake would … Continue reading →

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Two Birthdays

Posted on August 18, 2014 by edcol52

One of the perks of being Jewish is that you have two birthdays. The calendar we are most familiar, actually called the Gregorian calendar, is a solar-based calendar and divides each year up into the familiar 365 days, 52 weeks, … Continue reading →

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Losing My Voice

Posted on August 3, 2014 by edcol52

Where does the time go? I have read that it takes 21 days to create a habit. That is if you want to start doing something, do it consistently for 21 days, and you will create the habit to continue … Continue reading →

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I Can’t Promote This Book Enough

Posted on June 24, 2014 by edcol52

Originally posted on My Bright Shining Star:
I have mentioned this book before because I used an article of the author’s in my book, but I have just finished it today and I’m totally convinced that if I had known…

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Father’s Day, 2014

Posted on June 17, 2014 by edcol52

Yesterday was another first. My first Father’s Day without my son. To rephrase that, my first Father’s Day without my son alive. As days go, it was okay, difficult but okay. I dedicated the day to my son, Jake, who … Continue reading →

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The Secret Club

Posted on June 16, 2014 by edcol52

Originally posted on Dear Elena:
Every year, there’s a friend who has had or adopted a child in the past year and is celebrating his first Father’s Day as a father. This year Jonathan and GI joined this club. “Welcome,”…

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It’s Not Getting Any Easier

Posted on June 14, 2014 by edcol52

This has been a very arduous couple of weeks, full of ups and downs. We have been renovating our guest house, the place where Jake lived on and off for the past few years. Going through his belongings left there … Continue reading →

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Acceptance: The Holy Grail of the Grief Process

Posted on June 6, 2014 by edcol52

Originally posted on A Working Grief:
It’s now approaching 13 months since we lost Melinda.  We’ve done all the “firsts” that everyone said would be the worst, and we’re now into year 2.  It’s no better, no easier, no less…

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Sometimes, It’s the Most Unexpected Things

Posted on June 2, 2014 by edcol52

We have a small guest house attached to our home. Jake lived back there on and off during various phases these last several years. When we went to collect his belongings from Palm Springs last December, we just put everything … Continue reading →

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